in time

Ellie · Post by **Ellie** » Tue Oct 19, 2004 5:15 pm

dont you mean 'sad' might really be 'Saddam Hussein' ? trying to win over Bush?
please..dont mock the afflicted....Saddam/ Bush, I mean

seems youre on a losing wicket Sad

tricky · Post by **tricky** » Tue Oct 19, 2004 10:37 pm

Hi Ellie
I don't often disagree with you, but I think 'Sad' has to play the waiting game, maybe for quite a while, but I'm sure 'sad' is forgiven, its forgetting that takes a bit longer.

I'll have a drink in Columbos for you!

Trickyx

macho man · Post by **macho man** » Wed Oct 20, 2004 6:59 pm

hope you are right Tricky.Its making me very sad reading sads sad tale

but you and ellie and others keep us all happy

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Wed Oct 20, 2004 7:14 pm

que sera, sera

doris day fan · Post by **doris day fan** » Wed Oct 20, 2004 10:07 pm

Que sera sera
one of Doris's songs 'Whatever will be, will be"
the futures not ours to see?
Im not sure if its Latin or Italian

keep smiling and hoping sad

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Thu Oct 21, 2004 11:59 am

How about that other one of DDs Move over darling

dont be sad sad

Foxeylady · Post by **Foxeylady** » Thu Oct 21, 2004 10:19 pm

Dont know much about Doris Day.Didnt she end up looking after dogs

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Thu Oct 21, 2004 10:34 pm

NO, that was B.B, now she was a pair

Foxeylady · Post by **Foxeylady** » Thu Oct 21, 2004 11:58 pm

BB? a pair of what? Bed & Breakfast?

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Fri Oct 22, 2004 10:54 am

Just read this and don't know what the thoughtless words and actions were but sometimes 'we have to be cruel to be kind'.? If we're on the receiving end then those words etc. can indeed seem cruel at the time but usually with some passing of time we really do see that our loved ones are being kind? If the deed was done to try and help a friend then the friend will see that in time? but if the words and actions weren't for friends benefit then friend might think with a friend like this who needs enemies?
We all hopefully learn from our mistakes but if you are really serious and don't want to lose this friend then put your feelings in a letter or buy one of those friendship cards etc. post it and its then your friends decision to make-which you should respect.
Friends come and go in our lives but strange things happen in the passing of time and one day you could be on a beach on the other side of the world and find yourself lying near an older but familiar face - it has happened

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Fri Oct 22, 2004 11:28 am

These are wise words and all very true and helpful but time is of an essence.not one of us knows how long we have and each passing day can be painful.Yes words can be very hurtful,actions too. but words can also help heal .Silence isnt always golden.

Ellie · Post by **Ellie** » Fri Oct 22, 2004 5:16 pm

Yes guest..Ive always thought a nice letter can help relieve and bring relief too..but have you thought that maybe it isnt possible for Sad's friend to write to the offended one? Circumstances etc?
Maybe this forum is the (or their) only means of communication?
why else would anyone pour their heart out here (after all this is a public place) other than the fact ,that there is no other place to go?
But in saying that..Sad's friend must feel that she/he is amongst friends here,which as most of the above replies implies, is certainly the case.
Long live the forum

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Fri Oct 22, 2004 5:32 pm

Ok. Silence isn't golden then? So do something really dramatic which might make friend laugh so much they will forgive you? When in Cvo. we usually see the plane with advertising banner flying past - most probably costs a fortune to hire that thing but you get the drift - use your imagination and do something on a dramatic, cheaper scale? Think of something your friend has always wanted to do or really loves doing and make it happen?

You have nothing to lose!!!

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Fri Oct 22, 2004 10:06 pm

hey sad, its almost 2 weeks. This is the age of instant communication. If you've got no response, accept the inevitable. Move on and learn, and don't repeat the mistake

father time · Post by **father time** » Fri Oct 22, 2004 10:37 pm

2 weeks !!

you havent got much patience have you guest?I know we live in a fast moving world now communication wise but can you honestly deal with human emotion in so quick a time? Now that I do find sad.Sign of the times